Sometimes it looks like that they understand what i said they just look at me or sometimes stare at me. But if they are stressed they don't listen to me it's like "whatever", but i understand that.
I really love my cats =)
Actually giving love to your cats is like giving love to other people, but first you have to know how to love yourself if you don't know how to love and care yourself then don't pet cats or any animals it's a waste of time.
if your cats is stress then you also have to take good care of them. Make them happy the way they make you happy.